Relationship Quiz

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The Relationship Quiz is your go-to tool for assessing the health and vitality of your relationship. It’s a fun and informative way to ensure your relationship is thriving and aligned with your shared goals and values.

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How do you handle conflicts in your relationship?

We discuss calmly and resolve the issue together.

We argue, but eventually reach a resolution.

We avoid the topic and let time heal it.

We often struggle to resolve conflicts, and they tend to linger.

How often do you and your partner spend quality time together?

Almost every day

A few times a week

Once a week or less

Rarely or never

When making important decisions, how involved is your partner?

We always discuss and decide together.

We discuss, but one of us usually makes the final decision.

We don’t always consult each other on big decisions.

We often make decisions independently.

How do you feel about your communication with your partner?

We communicate openly and honestly about everything.

We communicate well most of the time, but struggle with certain topics.

We communicate, but not as often or as deeply as I’d like.

We have difficulty communicating and often misunderstand each other.

How secure do you feel in your relationship?

I feel very secure and supported.

I feel mostly secure, but have occasional doubts.

I feel somewhat insecure at times.

I often feel insecure and unsure of where we stand.

How do you feel about your level of intimacy in the relationship?

Very satisfied, we connect deeply.

Somewhat satisfied, but there's room for improvement.

It could be better; we’ve drifted apart a little.

Unsatisfied, we’ve lost a lot of our connection.

How do you handle disagreements about finances?

We openly discuss and manage our finances together.

We sometimes argue but come to an agreement.

We often avoid discussing finances to avoid conflict.

Finances are a constant source of tension and disagreement.

How supportive is your partner of your personal goals and dreams?

They are completely supportive and encourage me.

They are supportive but not always fully engaged.

They are neutral about my goals.

They are unsupportive and dismissive of my ambitions.

How comfortable are you discussing difficult topics with your partner?

Very comfortable, we talk about everything.

Mostly comfortable, but some topics are challenging.

Somewhat uncomfortable, we avoid certain subjects.

Very uncomfortable, we rarely discuss tough topics.

10.

How often do you and your partner express appreciation for one another?

Daily, we make it a priority.

Frequently, but not every day.

Occasionally, but we could do better.

Rarely, it’s something we need to work on.

1 out of 3

11.

Do you feel that your partner respects your boundaries?

Yes, they fully respect my boundaries.

Mostly, though there have been some minor issues.

Sometimes, but they occasionally overstep.

No, my boundaries are often ignored.

12.

How often do you and your partner engage in meaningful conversations?

Almost every day

A few times a week

Once a week or less

Rarely or never

13.

How do you and your partner handle stress or external pressures?

We support each other and manage stress well together.

We handle stress okay, but it can cause tension.

Stress sometimes leads to conflict between us.

We often turn against each other when stressed.

14.

How well do you and your partner align on major life values (e.g., family, career, religion)?

We are fully aligned and share the same values.

We align on most things but differ on some aspects.

We have significant differences in our values.

Our values are very different, and it causes conflict.

15.

How often do you express physical affection (e.g., hugs, kisses, hand-holding) toward each other?

Daily, we’re very affectionate.

Frequently, but it varies.

Occasionally, but not as often as I’d like.

Rarely, we’ve grown distant physically.

16.

How often do you laugh or have fun together?

Every day, we always enjoy each other’s company.

Frequently, though not every day.

Occasionally, but we’ve lost some of the fun in our relationship.

Rarely, we struggle to connect on a fun level.

17.

How do you feel about the balance of power in your relationship?

It’s equal; we both have a say in everything.

It’s mostly balanced, though one of us leads more often.

It’s somewhat unbalanced; one partner tends to dominate decisions.

It’s very unbalanced; one partner has most of the control.

18.

How well do you and your partner manage household responsibilities?

We share responsibilities equally and fairly.

We mostly share responsibilities, but one partner does more.

It’s somewhat uneven; one partner takes on more than the other.

It’s very uneven; one partner shoulders most of the responsibility.

19.

How connected do you feel to your partner emotionally?

Very connected, we share everything.

Fairly connected, though we could be closer.

Somewhat disconnected, we don’t share as much as we used to.

Disconnected, we rarely connect emotionally anymore.

20.

How comfortable are you being vulnerable with your partner?

Very comfortable, I can be completely myself.

Mostly comfortable, though I hold back on some things.

Somewhat uncomfortable, I often feel guarded.

Very uncomfortable, I rarely open up.

2 out of 3

21.

How often do you and your partner engage in activities you both enjoy?

Regularly, we prioritize shared activities.

Sometimes, but not as often as we used to.

Occasionally, but we’ve drifted apart in our interests.

Rarely, we hardly do things together anymore.

22.

How satisfied are you with your sex life?

Very satisfied, it’s fulfilling and frequent.

Somewhat satisfied, but there’s room for improvement.

Dissatisfied, it’s infrequent or lacks connection.

Very dissatisfied, we rarely have a sexual connection.

23.

How do you and your partner express love to one another?

We express love regularly through words, actions, and affection.

We express love, but not as often or as deeply as I’d like.

We express love occasionally, but it feels routine.

We rarely express love anymore.

24.

How often do you and your partner argue?

Rarely, we have a peaceful relationship.

Sometimes, but we usually resolve it quickly.

Frequently, though we eventually work through it.

Often, and arguments tend to escalate or remain unresolved.

25.

How do you feel about the level of trust in your relationship?

I completely trust my partner.

I mostly trust my partner, but have some doubts.

I have significant trust issues in the relationship.

I struggle to trust my partner at all.

26.

How well do you and your partner handle jealousy?

We don’t experience jealousy, we trust each other completely.

Jealousy occasionally comes up, but we talk about it and resolve it.

Jealousy is a recurring issue that causes tension.

Jealousy is a major problem in our relationship.

27.

How do you feel about your emotional independence within the relationship?

I feel emotionally independent and supported by my partner.

I feel somewhat dependent on my partner for emotional support.

I feel overly dependent on my partner and struggle with independence.

I feel emotionally dependent to an unhealthy extent.

28.

How often do you and your partner compliment or build each other up?

Frequently, we always uplift each other.

Sometimes, but we could do it more often.

Rarely, it’s something we neglect.

Hardly ever, we don’t prioritize positive reinforcement.

29.

How does your partner react when you share your feelings?

They listen attentively and validate my feelings.

They listen, but sometimes dismiss or downplay my emotions.

They often struggle to understand or respond to my feelings.

They frequently dismiss or ignore my feelings.

30.

How do you and your partner approach long-term planning (e.g., future goals, family, career plans)?

We actively discuss and plan our future together.

We occasionally talk about the future, but not in depth.

We rarely discuss long-term plans together.

We don’t talk about the future or make plans together.

3 out of 3